No need to explain-- I have a lot of respect for you and believe that you have reasons you have considered. I do appreciate you mentioning that you considered what I've said, though. That makes me feel heard, so thank you. As I said, I don't mean to take anybody to task. I understand that life is complicated and sometimes it's not possible to do everything on pure principle. But I think my feelings and my brain are a little divided on the issue. Seeing it makes me sad, but that doesn't mean I necessarily think it's really a sign of not caring. Just trying to balance dealing with the two.