I can't help but wonder... What are they thinking? Do those people not realize that he abused me? Do they not believe me when I say he did? Do they just not care?

I saw this post on Top LJ... totally agree. While my relationship with my ex was never abusive, exactly, he did leave me pretty brutal circumstances near the end, but whenever my friends mention him, it's like I'm the only one who remembers the pain I went through trying to get over it.