I have two or three people in my life with whom I have relationships strong and encompassing enough to withstand this kind of sharing, though there would probably be some adjustments to make.
A couple of times in my marriage we've come across memories of moments of utter humiliation and shared those and, I don't know exactly how to describe it, but it feels like...forgiven each other for having those experiences? That sounds odd, but it's what it feels like--told each other we understand and it's ok to have been humiliated. And that has felt pretty amazing, for each of us. So I think that if we were doing it on a wider scale, it could be alright.
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Date: 2014-07-13 01:06 pm (UTC)A couple of times in my marriage we've come across memories of moments of utter humiliation and shared those and, I don't know exactly how to describe it, but it feels like...forgiven each other for having those experiences? That sounds odd, but it's what it feels like--told each other we understand and it's ok to have been humiliated. And that has felt pretty amazing, for each of us. So I think that if we were doing it on a wider scale, it could be alright.