breakinglight11: (Default)
Because the algorithms are getting way too smart, I am getting bombarded with ads for that Materialists movie. I confess I’ve become a little bit obsessed with the trailer, and not just for the most predictable, Chris Evans-related reasons. BECAUSE IT’S SO STRANGE TO ME.

I find the title much weirder than I probably should, because I was raised on C.S. Lewis and his usage of “a materialist” comes to my mind before the “Material Girl” sort of way. But that cover of the Madonna song they use is a bop.

As befits the Madonna reference, the premise seems to have time-traveled in from twenty or thirty years ago, complete with characters who still smoke. A woman torn between a slick rich guy and a sweet poor guy? With the implication that she actually has stronger feelings for the poor guy? That is just about as stale a premise as I can think of. How could they possibly do anything fresh with that? If she chooses the nice poor guy, it’s a total cliche. But what would they be saying if they go for the hot rich guy? “Yeah, sure is great when you fall for people who are hot AND rich! Love when life is easy like that!” Powerful stuff, there.

Also, they seem to be implying that Dakota is doing okay for herself. They show her doing well as a matchmaker to high-powered people, so… can't she just hook up with hot poor guy, and take care of herself? Why does she need a man to do it? Is her life going to be soooooo much worse if she’s at her normal level of success un-bolstered by her boyfriend, rather than the rich dude’s ridiculous level?

Now, I get that love isn’t just falling for somebody, but living in that love every day. I believe in a certain level of practicality, and I CERTAINLY could not live with a useless man who didn’t contribute. But like, being a waiter is a hard job, so it’s not like he’s lazy or doesn’t want to work. Is she really afraid he’s going to become a burden on her? Feels kinda classist. “Doesn’t make a lot of money” is absolutely not the same as “does not meaningfully participate in the upkeep of our life together.” But apparently his being a waiter is enough to make her not want to consider him as a life partner?

Of course, this is a woman who hooks up with a new love and immediately afterward asks him how much his apartment costs. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? WHO RAISED YOU? Pedro, do not marry this tacky chick! You deserve better!

I may just be biased in Chris’s favor. Pedro is a great actor and a total sweetheart, but he doesn’t do it for me for whatever reason. And I have always been way stupider over good looks than I am over money, so… definite possibility.

Chris looks very good, because of course he does. They’re trying to imply there’s a little wear on him, possibly to suggest he doesn’t have his life together at a point by which he should. He’s using his growly voice, which is a nice touch. Apparently he’s been pining away for Dakota, even though men who look like that have no trouble finding great women to date regardless of their professional status. It’s an appealing fantasy, to think of him as some devoted romantic. I confess, “When I look at you, I see wrinkles and children,” got me a little, thanks to my personal baggage regarding men getting sick of you when you get old and gain weight.

And I’ll say the bit where she tells Pedro that she wants a Coke and beer and it appears immediately, briefly implying he’s just that powerful, but actually because her ex Chris saw her and knows that’s order, is very clever.

Still can’t fathom how they plan to actually do something with this premise. Feels like any way you take it is… flat and ridiculous. Does anybody go to a movie like this hoping for innovation? But in 2025, do you really you go with the most done, trite, obvious thing in the history of narrative? Why does Chris keep doing dumb movies like this? Doesn’t he have enough money? Why is Pedro doing this, for that matter, whose career’s been gangbusters lately?

I almost want to go just to see whether it’s fish, fowl, or otherwise. Hey, maybe she’ll end up picking neither! Or maybe go with the best of both worlds, and end up in a polyamorous relationship with Chris’s dick and Pedro’s money. I could get behind either of those.
breakinglight11: (Default)
This was okay, but my hopes were a bit higher after Evelyn Hugo, which I really liked. Both were by Taylor Jenkins Reid within her “famous women” universe, so I feel compelled to compare them.

This had a lot going for it— it was well written in the oral history style, with nicely distinctive voices for the characters. It also did a thing that interests me a lot, examine and dramatize the creative process. Often times stories depicting artists just show their art kind of springing fully formed into the world, but this actually told a compelling story about the actual development of the meaningful work. I enjoyed that a lot, particularly when a character makes a creative choice that demonstrates growth in the journey they were on. It especially impressed me because the art in question was music, which is a notoriously difficult thing to write about evocatively. One might as well “dance about architecture,” as they say. And I am so music-ignorant— it’s the huge major gap in my genres of artistic knowledge —that I often have a hard time understanding the way people discuss it. But Reid managed to describe songs and the process of creating them very effectively, such that even my dumb ass felt like I could get a sense of what the work was like.

But I think one of the primary reasons I enjoyed Evelyn Hugo more than Daisy Jones (both the books and the characters) was because Evelyn felt very flawed and human, while Daisy just felt kind of archetypical and one-dimensional. Evelyn fights tooth and nail for things, overcomes real challenges, and has deep human flaws like self-centeredness and toxic ambition that influence her choices and make her feel real and human. Daisy is just superhumanly talented and charismatic and falls ass backwards into basically everything she wants, despite not really trying or working— and the one thing she does want but can’t have, the narrative makes it plain she’s basically already got it in all ways but one, and adds like a PS saying “But she can have it in the end!”

I’m realizing how much I dislike Most Special Boy/Girl in the World narratives. Not stories about people who are special, which of course can be fascinating. But when the whole world seems to be in awe of the character and props them up, with no counterpoint, no human frailty to balance and give it depth, or at least with the idea they did something to earn it in a meaningful way.

I’m also not sure how to feel about the heavy reliance on the art created in-universe being autobiographical. I know why writers writing about artists do that— it’s the easiest way to make the art they’re creating comment on the artist-characters’ journeys. And I can’t say that, as an example of that tactic, it wasn’t executed well. But it’s kind of played out to me and feels a bit lazy, rather than trying to make the in-story art speak to the meta journeys more obliquely or indirectly.

In fact, this story kind of DEPENDED on the artist-characters’ work being OBVIOUSLY autobiographical, that you could literally see what was going on in their lives by their public personas and performances onstage. I know that they were modeled on Stevie Nicks and Lindsay Buckingham, who may actually have been living out a lot of their own romance in their work and performances. But I actually think that plays into a huge fallacy, of artists in general and famous artists in particular, that you can always interpret their work as authentic representations of themselves. Like, Hollywood is super fake, a matter of persona and construction and carefully crafted imagery to capture imaginations and sell records. Just because that rock star is really good at LOOKING like he’s in love when he sings doesn’t mean he is— if he weren’t, he probably wouldn’t be so famous that you’ve heard of him, and can watch him perform with such a high profile. Evelyn Hugo did a much better job of exposing the falseness famous people adopt to build their careers in the public eye, which felt more real to me.
breakinglight11: (Default)
Was kind of disappointed with this one, since the premise sounded so intriguing, a short horror based off of the Fall of the House of Usher. I guess it's only real sin is it took a long time to get going for a short novella. I think it was trying to build atmosphere and tension, but I found myself impatient for narrative movement.

The other part that didn't work for me was more subjective. I know this was a reinterpretation, and I may be overly attached to my own interpretation of the original Poe story. But it's a favorite of mine, one I teach in my literature and writing classes, and I always felt the true horror in it was the mundane, human weakness and unkindness-- a brother so miserable he knowingly sacrificed the only person suffering more than he was, the sick and helpless sister who depended on him, to relieve something of his own burden. This has Roderick attempting to destroy a dangerous monster rather than an innocent under his protection. Of course a retelling is going to go in its own direction, but this was so much a departure I thought it kind of defeated the point of iterating on the original. I prefer when new versions speak to the big themes that make the original special, although I acknowledge that others may interpret Usher differently.

Also I listened on audiobook and the narrator's style was not to my taste. That can sometimes influence my impression inordinately. I wonder if I would have enjoyed it more if I'd read it to myself.
breakinglight11: (Default)
While we saw a lot of fun stuff on our trip to London at the beginning of March, the biggest reason we went was to see a production of Much Ado About Nothing starring Hayley Atwell and Tom Hiddleston, and I am delighted to say it alone was worth the trip.



It was in the Royal Theatre Drury Lane in the West End, one of the oldest and most historic theaters in the area. It was a beautiful building, full of artifacts from past shows and paintings and sculptures of great theater artists and depictions of plays. There was a grand stair on each side, called the King’s Way and the Prince’s Way, a relic from when George III and the Prince Regent couldn’t stand each other, and wanted a way to attend on the same nights without having to run into each other. 😆

The show itself was, of course, very professionally done, not with particularly complicated staging or properties but executed to perfection. The only set was a few chairs and sometimes a table, along with a giant heart balloon lowered from the fly system. The stage floor was covered with pink ticker tape, which floated in light showers throughout, and poured down in a deluge at particular dramatic moments. The lighting was expertly designed, used to visually shorten and lengthen the rear of the stage depending on the scene, and beautifully bouncing off the smoke and ticker tape. While I love the scrappier, DIY-type fringe theater I see more often, it’s really nice to see high-budget, high-skill execution like this once in a while.



The script was cut down interestingly, in a way that basically worked. Dogberry and the citizen-police were cut entirely, but since they went with an overall silly take on all the action and the characters, I honestly didn’t really miss them. The only thing that felt a little off about it was that Don John end up kind of disappearing from the narrative in a way that felt like a dangling thread. Still, it made things tighter and move faster, and I was constantly laughing and not bored for a moment.

As I said, the overall vibe was very light, silly, and glitzy. They played up the ridiculousness of all the characters, even Beatrice and Benedick, and had lots of singing and dancing interludes. Many of the transitions between scenes were done by having the actor playing Margaret sing a pop song while the rest of the cast danced behind her. It was fun and energetic, and I enjoyed that it wasn’t taking itself very seriously, including by letting the dancing, while choreographed, have the vibe of people having fun at a wedding rather than like some intense musical theater style number.

The only bit that I thought was a little dumb I ended up forgiving because it made me laugh. There’s a bit in the script where it refers to the leads having pictures of each other… and the way they chose to represent those pictures was with life-size cardboard standees of Captain Carter and Loki. Definitely dumb, definitely fan service, definitely kind of an eye roller. But hell, I crossed an ocean because I wanted to see Loki and Peggy Carter in a play together, so I guess I can’t criticize.

The cast was great across the board, particularly the gender-non-conforming actor they had playing Margaret. But both Hiddleston and Atwell were as wonderful as I hoped they’d be. They both did an excellent job of balancing the general silliness of the piece with bringing real humanity to their roles. Their facility with Shakespeare was clear. Hiddleston is classically trained and I believe was primarily a stage actor before Marvel discovered him, and he makes the lines sound as natural as breathing. Atwell was a blast to watch, sassy, smart, tough, and vulnerable all at once. Her reading of “EAT HIS HEART IN THE MARKETPLACE” made me whoop. They were totally game for the intense and often ridiculous blocking, be it the dancing, mugging, or romance.

And I have to say, my OTP may pair Hayley with my boy Chris, but her and Tom did make for a very sexy couple. She is a gorgeous woman— interestingly leaner here than I remember from the Captain America films —with a fabulous voice and an athletic, energetic presence that just radiates personality. And I thought he was scorching hot; even as a longtime Marvel fan, it took me a little while to see his particular appeal, but I think if I hadn’t gotten there already his presence here would have sold me. He is so tall and lean, with a long-limbed precision of movement that went from comedic looseness to sharp sexiness with ease. And he is STILL in Marvel shape— he had a moment where he unbuttoned his shirt to show a set of pecs and abs that punched all the way to the balcony. (Yeah, there was probably some makeup involved, but still!) Plus that silky baritone voice is made for Shakespeare. It’s clear why Branagh wanted him for the first Thor movie.



So I had a wonderful time. It was one of the more fun theatrical experiences I’ve had, funny and exciting and not dull for a moment. Even if we hadn’t enjoyed anything else on our London trip (which we definitely did) this show would have made it worth it for me.
breakinglight11: (Default)
And I was pretty disappointed.

It wasn't a bad read, but ultimately an unsatisfying one for me. I rolled my eyes when the screenwriter in the story scorned the idea of making the motivations of her characters clear, but it appears the writer of the novel agrees. I couldn't figure out why most of the characters did the things they did, particularly the narrator, which made them feel less believable.

I also didn't love how often the main character elided conversations and moments that seemed like they should be important with... quick summaries of what was said or done. I know that it's supposed to be an unreliable narrator literally speaking the words of his own audiobook, but it felt to me like the author just didn't know how to actually show the moment rather than just tell us what we were supposed to get from it. And it's not like the author wasn't willing to sacrifice verisimilitude of form in other places-- if the in-book screenplay was supposed to be good, rather than waaaaaaaaay overwritten and self-indulgent, it was definitely willing to overwrite in the service of this being a novel rather than an actual screenplay. As a filmmaker and screenwriter myself, that is NOT how effective ones are written.

And, totally personal gripe, but again, as a filmmaker myself-- any filmmaker who doesn't care about the safety and on-set experience of their crew is a FUCKING ASSHOLE who does not deserve that crew's time or effort. The filmmakers in this story were definitely of that stripe, and I don't think it was acknowledged nearly enough in this story how abusive that is. I think we were asked to have way too much sympathy for those characters for that awareness to have been present.
breakinglight11: (Default)
I'm off to a strong start this year with reading books. I'm actually a very fast reader once I get over the initial hump of picking a book to start, and my biggest barrier to book-reading is getting interested enough in any one in particular to open it. So this year I'm trying to make a list of books I'm actually EXCITED to begin-- not just ones I think I'd like to have read, or that I expect I will probably enjoy once I get going --so that as soon as I finish my current one, I've got another to jump to.

I've read eight books in just these first two month of 2025 already, and most of them I enjoyed at least one some level. A few, like The Sixth Deaths of the Saint by Alix Harrow and Circe by Madeline Miller, are among the best works in their genres I've ever read. A few were less amazing, but still engaging page-turners, like Tatiana Schlote-Bonne's Such Lovely Skin and Grady Hendrix's The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires. There was at least one disappointment, in Jamison Shea's I Am the Dark That Answers When You Call, since I quite enjoyed the first in the series and found the sequel to kind of run out of steam, but even that wasn't bad.

I'm not loving the current thing I'm working through, Paul Tremblay's Horror Movie. Lots of eliding conversations and moments, as well as obscure motivations, make it weird and a little alienating, but it's not terrible. But I am using it as something to alternate back and forth with Umberto Eco's The Name of the Rose, which I've been meaning to get to for years. I love the movie, and the novel is not bad so far, but it's VERY dense and requires a lot of focus to follow the philosophical detours, so I've been taking it in a small bit at a time. I've heard that's intentional on Eco's part, to weed out scrubs who were just expecting a medieval potboiler, but I'm not sure how much I think it's overburdening the novel's real interest. We'll see as I get farther.
breakinglight11: (Default)
Had a librarian come in to talk to one of my classes about research. She was talking about the relevance of recent articles versus older ones, while using sea turtle conservation as an example topic.

She said, “In this case, we’d probably find more recent articles more relevant to our work. If you go back too far, “sea turtle conservation” might mean how you make the turtle’s meat last long enough on the long sea voyage.”

I don’t know how much my students got it, but I laughed. Librarians are fun.
breakinglight11: (Default)
This week I got to hear an advance edit of an audio drama in which I played a semi-important role. It was an interesting experience— I thought the piece came out very well, with some great performances in a fun script, and some very effective sound editing.

It was the first time in a long time I’ve played a substantial acting role in something. I used to be more of an actor than anything else, and I still really enjoy it, but in the last decade I’ve moved far more to the other side of the curtain. I prefer the control one has over the story as writer and director, and honestly I’m better at those anyway. But I still like acting, and I used to be not-half-bad at it, so I appreciate the rare occasion I can fit it into my schedule to perform in something.

Most artists are critical of their work, but since I’m a good director and only an okay actor, it’s hard not to fixate on how I’d LIKE my performance to be but may not actually be able to make it. Usually one of my strengths as a theater artist is my ability to evaluate a performance, figure out what’s going on in it and what it possibly needs, but it’s tough to look at my own objectively. And I go back and forth on what I think of the job I did here.

Don’t get me wrong, I think I did okay. Respectably well, definitely not embarrassing myself. I don’t sound like a scrub. But pretty much every other actor in the piece is definitely more skilled than me, so I think I suffer a bit by comparison. Still, I tried. The role required a London accent, and I worked very hard on it to prepare. Cari was even kind enough to join me on a long car ride where we spoke like Cockneys for the duration so I could practice. I was playing a straight man role in a fairly silly comedy, so my two big goals were: one, to not be working so hard at the accent as to inhibit my acting, and two, to keep my readings dimensional and not one-note with exasperation, which is a real danger when you’re playing the serious person responding to the insanity around them.

I think I mostly succeeded at not letting the accent flatten me. But as for managing the latter, I attempted to bring in a touch of amusement to leaven it. The character does have a sharp wit, so I tried to use that to make it sound like I was willing to at least sometimes roll with the madness rather than just push against it. I’m divided as to how well it came through. Maybe in some places, but not in others. Of course, it could just be that the director preferred different takes. Maybe I would have gravitated to other ones than those selected— of course, my attempts may not have worked as well as I hoped, or the vision could simply be different.

Anyway, I’m very glad I got to do it. I enjoyed the process and the challenge, and it was really nice to do a bit of acting again. Even if I may have been the weak link in the chain, just because everyone else was just so good. When it comes out, I'll be sure to point people to it-- and you can judge my performance for yourself.
breakinglight11: (Default)
I have such angry feelings about the whole Neil Gaiman situation. Most of them are the same as what most folks, given how disgusting that behavior is. But I think I’m tripping over a dimension of them I haven’t seem much discussion of, and I want to grind over that a little.

As I said, I’m disgusted, but not really heartbroken. I like Gaiman’s work a fair bit, but never loved it, nor did it mean a huge amount to me. So it doesn’t feel like a betrayal in that dimension. But it does get at me on a personal level every time a man who has achieved something like I’d love to achieve uses that achievement to abuse people.

I confess to dreams of superstar creative status, though I’m not delusional enough to think they’re likely to ever come true. So if I’m very honest, I harbor a fair bit of jealousy for the few writers who ever get there, Neil Gaiman among them. So every time some superstar is revealed to be a monster— specifically, the kind of monster who leverages their status to take advantage of and hurt people —it just makes my blood boil with the injustice of it.

I know so many super talented, totally kind and decent people who labor in obscurity while assholes like him, like Joss Whedon, like others, find enormous creative success. I mean, God knows I’m not a perfect person. The toxic ambition and jealousy are the least of it— I basically just centered my own frustration in a discussion of people who were assaulted by a man with power. God forgive me. But a big part of why I want the status that comes along with attention and accolades is to use it to treat people BETTER, not hurt and take advantage of them.

That kind of success confers power. People want to collaborate with you, supply you with resources, facilitate you getting your work done. I want those things not just to make my own work better, but to give me the ability to thank and support those who have helped me in the way they deserve. To see that they get accolades, support, attention, adulation, compensation, equal to contributions. And to protect them from struggles and pains in the neck that could get in their work.

Like, take our most recent Hawking live show. We ran into all kind of problems with the technical setup at the event that was hosting us, and not a lot of investment in helping us solve those problems. It made it so much harder for the cast and crew to do their jobs. They’re amazing, so of course they knocked it out of the park anyway, but they shouldn’t have had to deal with that after all their hard work. And I felt frustrated and ashamed, because I had so little power to mitigate that for them. Because I’m not important enough to warrant anything better.

The whole time, I couldn’t shake the feeling. If I were somebody— if Breaking Light Productions was something— people would do better for us. They’d feel it more necessary to support us. And I’d have the resources to fix problems when they happened. But I’m not, so I can’t.

The folks who have been kind enough to collaborate with me deserve so much better that I can offer. Right now, I can’t pay anybody what they’re worth. I can’t even promise a smooth experience where they’re able to just show up and do what they agreed to do. I want to have that power so I can do better for them. So every time I hear about somebody using that power to hurt, it turns my stomach with the unfairness. Sure, maybe you’re talented— but there are so many talented people who aren’t assholes! Why should the assholes be the ones who get uplifted?

Just grinds my gears.
breakinglight11: (Default)
There was this funny thing my mother used to do-- I suppose this joke or reference she'd make sometimes --when she thought somebody was being overdramatic about a situation. It's a little tricky to describe, but basically she'd hold up her hand, palm facing front with fingers spread, and shake it, while saying in a kind of wobbly voice, "Woe!" It was meant to indicate that the situation wasn't that big a deal, and she felt somebody was being a little silly being so miffed about it. While the meaning of the gesture is clear without a ton of explanation, I somehow also got an impression of where the gesture came from, so to speak, and I can't recall where I got it from.

I have always been under the impression that the bit was meant to represent a court jester holding a little head-on-a-stick version of himself-- Google tells me this is called a marotte --acting as a Greek chorus to whatever the king said. So, like, if the king is lamenting some terrible thing, the jester backs him up by shaking the head-on-a-stick and crying "Woe!" In my mom's impression, the wiggling raised hand is meant to represent the jingling marotte, and the "Woe!" becomes sarcastic.

Thing is, I don't know where this understanding of the gesture came from. I can't remember if Mom ever explained to me that that was what she was doing, or if I actually saw it somewhere and put two and two together. Wish I could ask her. Has anybody ever seen something like this? Or did I complete hallucinate this explanation and graft it onto that weird little thing my mom did?

I don't know why I was thinking about this today, but it came into my head.
breakinglight11: (Default)
I've been trying to reform some habits lately, in hopes of having a little more energy and focus and managing some mental health symptoms. One of those is I'm trying to replace my morning Starbucks with something a little less sugary, and that doesn't cost six dollars every day.

For this purpose, I decided to give Mud/Wtr a try. I believe it's an example of what they call "mushroom coffee," which doesn't actually contain any coffee, but is a drink powder made with functional mushrooms. As far as I can tell, "functional" refers to mushrooms that have adaptogenic compounds that ward off chemical and biological stress, but are not psychoactive. Since I have been struggling with some of the weariness and mental fog that they're supposed to help with, I thought I'd see if they worked for me, and if I could stand to drink it.

To make the stuff, you mix a tablespoon of the powder with boiling water and your milk and sweetener of choice. Mud/Watr even sends you a neat little blending whip to help mix it together, so it's kind of fun to make. And I actually was surprised to find how much I like drinking it. The kind I got tastes like a fancy hot chocolate mixed with masala chai, although not as thick or quite as sweet. It's no Starbucks chai latte-- my beloved creamy syrupy spicy sugar bomb --but it's way cheaper, and with significantly fewer empty calories.

I think I've been feeling a bit better with it too. It's only been a week, but I do think I've been less foggy. Of course, it could be any number of things-- maybe over Thanksgiving break I've been eating or sleeping better or something. But it makes me optimistic, and anything that cuts down on the Starbucks is a good thing for me now. Also I get to joke now about my morning microdose, which my straightedge ass finds endlessly amusing.
breakinglight11: (Default)
Finally got around to checking out William Nicholson’s play Shadowlands, a dramatization of the process of C.S. Lewis falling in love with his wife Joy Davidman Gresham, and dealing with her eventual death of cancer just a few years later. It was sweet and sad and I quite enjoyed it, to the point where I wonder if my long-standing interest in the subject matter might have biased me. But I thought it was quite good, with strong characterizations, excellent dialogue, and lots of lovely little touches that came from an understanding of the actual historical people’s lives. A Grief Observed, a clear inspiration for the work, is one of my favorite pieces of Lewis’s; it was important to me both in dealing with my grief over my mother’s death, and with my own struggles to remain hopeful in the face of pain. So I may be a bit inclined to like it, but I still thought it was good on its own merits.

The only real critique I have of it are that the ending feels a bit rushed; it does touch on how the loss of Davidman shook Lewis’s faith for a time, and he had to rebuild it, but I thought it got to that rebuilt place a bit faster than made sense. Also, there was a moment that didn’t work for me if only because it contradicted an explicit point made in A Grief Observed. There’s a scene where Lewis’s older brother Warren encourages him to speak to his stepson about their shared sorrow over the loss of Davidman. It’s a pretty well-written scene, and I can see why the writer felt it was narratively necessary, but it bugged me because Lewis explicitly says in the memoir that he attempted to talk to the young sons she left behind about it, and it was so uncomfortable for all of them that he quit trying. The scene in the play has that moment go way better than he describes it, and while I get it was a dramatization rather than a biography, it still rang false to me.

My favorite part of the construction was the way it intertwined the story with Lewis’s wrangling with the subject that most preoccupied him in his theological life— what he called “the problem of pain,” the question of how a God that loves us can allow pain in the world. If you’re going to write about Lewis as a character and capture anything true about him, that really does have to be part of his personal struggle, and I thought the play incorporated it well. It also drove home an understanding I always felt was necessary to get Lewis and his work— that this is a man who hurt —because nobody would become so obsessed with that question unless they had a lot of suffering they needed to make sense of.

”How’s the pain, Joy?” “Only shadows, Jack.”
breakinglight11: (Default)
Color sense really isn’t my best skill. Right now I’m working on an art project where I need to come up with color palettes for individual items, consisting of at least three or four colors each, and I’m struggling.

While I’m very interested in color and can see minor gradations in it, I find that I am mostly drawn towards very basic combinations when required to put them together. You can see it in my dress sense; while I think I’m pretty good at putting together outfits that look nice, they are almost always limited to just a few tones. I’m lucky that I look good in most colors and do wear a wide variety, but in any one outfit I gravitate towards one vibrant shade with a few neutrals, or various shades of all one hue. Like, teal with black and white, or various shades of oxblood with dark gray. It looks fine, but often it’s more interesting and sophisticated to combine several bright colors that compliment each other in unexpected ways. I also do this in my costume design, where I assign a general color to characters and otherwise only permit them neutrals, and often default to obvious palettes like red versus blue.

I’d like to get better at that, particularly since I think it would suit this project, but it’s hard. Right now my strategy has been to Google combinations and see what other people put together, hoping for inspiration. Maybe this kind of research will help train my eye so that I can get better at coming up with these things myself. Anything to not just default to a bright with two neutrals, or lots of tone-on-tone.
breakinglight11: (Default)
As I mentioned in my previous entry about the library shelves, the living room isn’t the only part of the house improved by having them. Since there wasn’t room for all eleven segments downstairs, we also put some into the two rooms upstairs we set aside for our offices. Bernie’s is the office he uses to work from home, and in addition to storing books and tchotchkes, it makes for a nice environment for him to take video calls. The rest went into my office, which was in dire need of some building out.

When we first moved in, we decided we would take one of the smaller rooms upstairs for our bedroom, since we didn’t need much space in there and it would be easier to heat and cool. That would allow us to use the larger master bedroom for other things, and since Bernie wanted the basement for his game room, that could allow me to use that space for my projects, and storing all the attendant STUFF they require.

But for a frustratingly long time, it was clear I didn’t have it set up the way I wanted it. My costume collection went into the spacious closet, which was nice. We put the bed that was mine in my old house in there so we’d have a place for guests, but beyond that I didn’t have the right furniture to really use the room. My work table from the old place ended up being stacked with stuff, like my sewing supplies, making it only half as useable as a work space. And I had boxes of books and things piled up that had no place to be unpacked to. It felt neither useable nor even pleasant to be in there, so I really wasn’t taking advantage of this nice space set aside for my work.

When I put some of the library shelves in there, it completely transformed the space for me. Being able to unpack and decorate in there made it feel comfortable for me in a way it hadn’t before, and I found myself able to figure out how best to arrange it for myself.



Here’s the guest bed, made up in its winter neutrals. I like having a comfortable place for guests to stay, ready even on short notice. It also makes a good place for me to nest, since I like to work sometimes from a blanket pile instead of upright in a chair. We brought up one of the end tables that used to be in my old living room to use as a nightstand, and I draped the garland from my old bedroom over the headboard. The Board of Crazy from Mrs. Hawking part V: MRS. FROST hangs on the wall over it, because I always thought it was a really cool prop and I enjoy seeing it displayed.



Having realized I needed a storage solution to free up my work top, I went on a hunt for a few new pieces of furniture. I’ve always been really good at thrifting and finding things secondhand, and it wasn’t long before I found this old sideboard in my neighborhood for cheap. I could move my sewing stuff to the top of it, and fill the cabinets with props, costumes, and other supplies. I also like that in a pinch I can use it for extra counter space.



My work table I then moved out to stand free in this half of the room. I want to keep it mostly clear so I can use it for different projects. Right now it’s set up in painting mode, with my mats spread out, but my computer can also sit here when I need it for a desk. I find I like being able to walk all the way around it, and have room to do things like set up lights and cameras if I need to film on it. There’s also room for storage tubs to live out of the way underneath it.



Here are the sections of library shelf, with my books and decorated with various things I like— particularly my Monster High dolls, which I’ve placed in little tableaux. I felt slightly embarrassed when I was setting them up, feeling silly for being a grown adult collecting them. But honestly it really goes give me joy to look at them, and here in my own space I should just make it the way I like it, and not worry what other people think.



The last new-to-me piece of furniture I found was an apothecary chest, an antique full of long thing drawers that’s perfect for dolls, supplies, and bits and bobs I need for my various crafts. It also happens to be the perfect size to display this Monster High doll house— I’m sure our overnight guests feel very secure with these little creatures watching over them. I also hung this whiteboard, though I’m not sure what I’ll use it for yet, and a few prized mementos from shows.

The room is not quite done yet. There is a pretty armoire that matches the bed frame that I'd like to get from my dad's house, but I haven't decided whether that should go in here or in my bedroom. Either place might need a bit of rearranging so as not to feel crowded. And I feel like there's still some room for art to hang on the walls. But it makes me happy how it's come together. I feel comfortable in here, and able to do projects. I didn't realize how much I hadn't enjoyed being in here before, until I finally committed to making it my own. Now it feels like a huge improvement in our home.
breakinglight11: (Default)
Forever Captain:
“Bearded”
By Phoebe Roberts
~~~

Summary: “Peggy comes home after several weeks away on a mission to find Steve has neglected to shave in that time. Fetching as she finds the beard, she learns there’s a reason why he’s never grown it out before.”

~~~

“Bearded” )

~~~

The End
breakinglight11: (Default)
I don’t read a lot of fan fiction anymore. That sounds funny, since I still do write a fair bit, at least when I can find the time. But while I enjoy reading fic in theory, in practice it’s pretty tough to find the sort of thing that suits my taste. I have a fairly low tolerance for work I don’t consider to have good writing, and a strong if not overwhelming taste for things that fit into or continue on with established canon. What draws me to fan fiction has always been a desire for more of the story and characters I have come to love, so I’m not super interested in stuff that doesn’t build off of that. I think most fic writers prefer to play with and change things, at least based on what I’ve observed, so while there definitely is some of my preferred style out there, it’s often really difficult to sift out of the vast sea of alternate universes, what if scenarios, and outright garbage. I’m really just too busy these days to spend a lot of time digging, so the result is I just don’t read much fic anymore.

But every now and then, I get lucky, and come across something that ticks all the boxes. And it really is a special experience. For me this recently happened with a Fleabag story called “Parables of Peace” by a writer called Pennyante on AO3. I wasn’t particularly looking for Fleabag fic, but this came from a random recommendation I saw online that used the magic words— “like a third season of the show.” And to my delight, it actually was.

It really does capture the voice of the show, and meaningfully iterates on a characters in a way that feels true to them. It may be a bit less focused on the comedy/satire elements of the original, but that’s really the only thing. They way the central figures and relationship are explored and evolved is beautifully, authentically done. It was such an unexpected pleasure to find something like this, since it doesn’t happen very often. Definitely recommend it if you liked the Fleabag show.

Owning up

Oct. 25th, 2024 10:15 am
breakinglight11: (Default)
Blargh. I screwed up today in a way that made me get on my students’ cases for not being on top of their stuff. But when I investigated further, it was my mistake, not theirs, because a change I made to my teacher resource had not propagated to their student resource.

When I realized, I took responsibility and apologized to them. I feel bad and awkward about it, like I’ve undermined myself and my credibility next time I try to set standards for them. But maybe it’s good to model an authority figure owning up when you are in the wrong, and saying you’re sorry for what you did.
breakinglight11: (Default)
I just remembered something that kind of made me laugh.

Years ago, I was writing a small, short, funny larp that was supposed to capture the feel of the Blandings stories of P.G. Wodehouse. None of his characters, but that kind of silly rich people in that kind of Interwar British country world. In that vein, I wrote a character kind of like the Honorable Freddie Threepwood, a good-natured but stupid posh ne'er-do-well, whom I named Gavin Alaric Post II-- in honor of his mother's beloved late bichon frisé, whose portrait still hung on the manor wall, to remind the second Gavin of all he could never live up to.

(That is, in my opinion, the second best joke in the game. The first is, of course, the reason why the earl's prize show pig Persephone is currently unable to compete, having come down with a case of porcine ennui.)

Anyway, one of Gavin's current problems, as shiftless Wodehouse gentlemen of his station are wont, is that he has fallen in love with a chorus girl, but already has a history of romantic entanglement with her sister. I decided to name his current lady love Bonnie Day as a bit of a cute pun, "bonne ideé" being the French for "good idea." It struck me then, that it might be equally amusing to call his former paramour "Molly Day," as my schoolgirl French led me to remember that "mal" is often the word for "bad".

I was feeling quite pleased with myself until, out of an abundance of prudence, I happen to actually look up how you say "bad idea" in French-- which as it turns out, is not "mal ideé" but actually "mauvais ideé". Yet again, I fail my many, many years of French education! I was quite put out, since I was feeling so smug in my own cleverness.

I can't remember if I used it anyway. Heh, I probably did. Even if it may have made me look dumb rather than clever! But I just laughed so much at the idea, I don't know if I could resist...
breakinglight11: (Default)
I saw The Substance this past weekend, and I am sorry to report I didn’t really like it. Not that it was bad, exactly, but I don’t think it was effective. At least, if it was trying to tell the story I was expecting. SPOILERS AHEAD.

From the marketing, I was going in for a story about a woman whose fear of losing her value as she aged leading her to destroy everything of ANY value about herself. I was preparing myself for this film to, for lack of a better term, trigger the hell out of me, or at least give me big feelings. This is, in theory, a horror movie for me, exploring ideas that I VERY SPECIFICALLY find scary. My fear of aging and becoming ugly is well-documented, after all. But it really didn’t work for me, because I don’t feel like it captured any of what that fear feels like.

To begin with, it is not a subtle film. That’s not necessarily a criticism, but I will say I did not care for it. Anytime a character was remembering something that just happened to them, the moment would be superimposed right on top of things, like it didn’t expect you to make the connection. The misogynist male executive was depicted as loud, gross, and over the top as possible— from having him rant in so many words about how old women sucked, to yucky closeups of him chomping on shrimp. And that’s to say nothing of how over the top the voyeurism of the camera was on Margaret Qualley’s body. I was kind of hoping to see a depiction of pervasive, insidious anti-aging bias is woven into the world, particularly for women, particularly for women in the limelight. It just seemed a bit too easy to have a very yucky man straight-up tell Demi Moore that fifty is too old— especially when she’s so beautiful that she’s able to pass for younger than fifty when she’s actually sixty-two.

Again, I get that this extremity and exaggeration was a deliberate stylistic choice. But to my sensibility, when you create a fantasy of a real experience, you are trying to use the fantastical elements to express true ideas in a manner that makes them stand out even more strongly than they do in life. So it wasn’t that I was expecting this lurid sci fi horror extravaganza to realistically depict the mundane indignities of getting older. But I felt like the representations should be clearly alluding to emotions and experiences that were recognizable enough to evoke horror. But I only saw one moment, maybe one and a half moments, that felt like genuine expression of the struggle of aging.

The first and realest was when her growing insecurity over her appearance in comparison to Sue while getting ready for her date led her to second-guess herself so badly, she not only ruined her appearance, she collapsed entirely. As someone who has wiped off fifty percent of all lipstick she’s ever applied in her entire life, because of staring in the mirror and genuinely being unable to tell if it looks good or clownish— as someone who has wondered if I ought to just get that tiny little poke of flesh at the corners of my jaw “taken care of” before anybody but me starts to notice— I felt that.

The only other one that came close, and to me used the extreme fantastical exaggeration effectively for once, was when her trollishly twisted self stood beside the portrait of herself in her glory days. The comparison— of having been perfect once, having known what it was like to have been beautiful, but intensely aware of how fleeting it is —shivered me, because it evoked a terror that runs genuinely deep. I’ve been lucky enough to have kept my figure up to this point, but my face has visibly aged, losing some roundness around the jawline and loosening up just a tiny bit at the jowls. Even as I exult over the fact that I can still wear a bikini I bought when I was nineteen, the changing shape of my face reminds me that it’s all just a matter of time before it all goes away. No amount of beauty you once had protects you from what’s to come.

It also didn’t manage to capitalize on its compelling premise. The idea was that you use a medical procedure to make a younger hotter self, and trade off weeks of getting to go out and live life. When the selves cannot split time and resources equally and become jealous of each other, they destroy one another. But I think they just didn’t build it out right. In The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, Jekyll would maintain consciousness when he became Hyde; he had the same memories and awareness, just like everything about himself and his personality were different. He felt Hyde’s experiences, he knew what Hyde did, because— as was ultimately the point of the book —Hyde WAS him. In The Substance, main self Elisabeth and alternate self Sue shared no consciousness at all, and under most circumstances weren’t even able to meet each other. It wasn’t really like having an alternate self; it was more like having a child you had no relationship with, and no ability to develop one.

It really made it hard for me to see what the advantage of the process was— you miss out on half of your life, you don’t get to personally enjoy any of the benefits of being the young hot self, and you don’t even have any ability to develop love or affection for the other self to make you enjoy their success vicariously. The company that makes the Substance has to continually remind Elisabeth and Sue that they are one, but… they don’t feel that way, to us or to them, because they’re really not. The process really doesn’t facilitate anything that would make them feel that they are.

It made me wonder if maybe it was more a story about jealousy, or living vicariously through your child. But that lack of relationship between them left a lot of even that premise on the table.

I also didn’t quite understand the purpose of the extremely sexualizing camera angles constantly used on Sue. At first, I thought they were trying to establish the excitement of suddenly having an amazing body, and delighting in checking it out. That made sense to me. (Although for the record, if Margaret Qualley is hotter than Demi Moore, it’s only by the tiniest bit, which is saying something since Qualley is 29 and Moore is 62.) But they persisted with the objectifying closeups on her until almost the end of the movie. We get several sequences of her dancing shot like porn movies, with a particular focus on her ass. As I said, this is not a subtle movie, but after a while I didn’t get what it was trying to say by carrying it out so persistently. We knew by that point that she was hot, so… what? I thought eventually they might use the extreme objectification to make her body seem grosser and grosser, the way human physicality can become when you chop it up visually and get too close on the details, but by the time they were ready to do that, they actually started making her body itself fall apart. So it honestly started to feel like fan service to me, which seemed very out of place in a movie like this. If anybody has an idea of what they think it was trying to accomplish, I’d love to hear it.

There was also one element that cracked me up— the intense masculine voice that narrated the commercial for the Substance also was the one who answered the phone anytime Elisabeth and Sue called the company to complain. Poor guy, he probably auditioned for an acting gig and got stuck with a customer service job!
breakinglight11: (Default)
This hasn’t been a great month on the health front for me. While I have been generally blessed through my life without any serious physical ailments, the specter of aging creeps upon me and begins crumbling this mortal body to dust. In the past month, I’ve had all my chronic issues of their varying severities hitting me one after the other, with a migraine, depression-related weirdness, and recurrent severe heartburn. All that, on top of a persistent cold that I couldn’t seem to kick. It’s really slowed me down and made me lose a ton of time.

The heartburn has been especially vexing, getting steadily more frequent with no obvious cause. I have a fairly healthy regular diet, but I would periodically eliminate the possible culprits— dairy, tomatoes, caffeine, carbonation, even lying down too soon after eating —and it never seemed to make a difference to whether I got it or not. I never did notice any pattern in it— except, possibly, that it seemed to overwhelmingly trigger later in the day. I got put on various anti-reflux medicines, which would work for a short time then quit. I was living on Pepto-Bismol, and it’s now at the point where that doesn’t even really work anymore.

I was referred to a gastroenterologist who has me scheduled for an endoscopy— wheeeeeee, gut snake —but it’s not for a while yet. In the meantime, I had to do something, as the symptoms had become increasingly frequent and intolerable. So I’m currently trying the only thing I could think of— not letting myself eat anything after 4pm. Since the only constant I noticed was I very, very rarely experienced symptoms early in the day, it seemed like it was worth a shot to just not give ANYTHING the chance to trigger it. And it is with mixed feelings that I must report that it worked.

I’ve been doing it for a week now, and I haven’t had any flare-ups since. It hasn’t been easy— it basically means I can’t eat dinner, which super sucks, and given my schedule, it’s hard to make sure I eat enough for the day before the cutoff time. I’m starting to get used to it, but it’s really not easy for me. Even with all the various issues I’ve had with food over the years, I’ve never been able to just make myself not eat when I was very hungry. I’ve had a few days where come evening my big guts were eating my little guts, and it took all the willpower I had. But the heartburn has been frequent enough that I’m starting to worry about ruining my esophagus, and this has been the only thing to consistently work.

I’m really hoping that the endoscopy will pinpoint the real problem. A silent ulcer, maybe, or a hiatal hernia. Something that can be decisively fixed once it’s identified. I really don’t want to spend forever not being able to consistently share an evening meal with people. That would seriously bum me out. But in the meantime, this is the best I’ve got.

Profile

breakinglight11: (Default)
breakinglight11

May 2025

S M T W T F S
    123
45678910
11121314151617
18192021222324
25262728293031

Syndicate

RSS Atom

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated May. 22nd, 2025 09:41 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios