What grief is so far

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So far it seems that grief is a lot of feeling dull and empty. My head is full of a lot of nothing. I can't think of things to say even when I try. Focus, elusive enough for me at the best of times, is at an all-time low. All I want to do is lay around in a heap, reading dumb stuff on the Internet I've read a hundred times before.

I still think it hasn't completely hit me. I miss her a lot. But it feels kind of like it does when somebody's been gone for a while, not when they've only just left and are never coming back. I wonder how the feeling will gape when I really grasp that this is forever. She's gone for always, and I will never have her again in this life.

I sure do miss her, though. When's she coming home again? Oh, right.

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*so many hugs*

My mother and I didn't get along and I haven't particularly missed her these past six years,
but when I read your eulogy, I sat in my car and sobbed. It made me think about what I missed during that time we didn't get along and how I might feel differently now if we had.

Hang in there, Phoebe. You know you have so many people who love you and are here if you need them. Myself included.